Wednesday, 16 July 2008
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Being a single mom can be very lonely.
After a full day with my son or work,
i find myself alone in the evening with no one to share your high and lows of the day. No one to share getting up in the night when your child wakes with a temperature, no one to go on holiday with and no one to share financial/parental responsibility. It can be tough and most single mums do a fantastic job under the circumstances.
being a single mom,
i need to work to support my kiddo. i always make sure that im always there for him.
i believe that spending quality time is more important than spending quantity time :) now that im on the process of getting my anullment, i dont start turning my son to hate his father. although things didnt work between us, it doesnt mean that i have to restrain him for being a father. he's still jd's dad and that's a fact.
i do take care of my finances now.
Bec being on a financial crisis is the last thing on my mind. Being a single mom is my choice, in the future if ever my son's gonna ask me questions,
i will never hide it from him. but of course, no bad words!
this is the funny part, i know sometimes single moms tend to be overprotective and im
one of them. ok, i will not be over protective of him but please, i dont want to be a grandmom by the age of 40. hahaha
a single mom needs to be both a mother and a father.
i have to play both roles simultaneously.
i pamper him as a mother and i scold him (sometimes) as a father.I love how powerful and competent I feel, knowing I'm doing a very tough job all by myself, completely solo, and that i'm THRIVING. :)
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