Thursday, 3 April 2008
once and for all. |
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see that wedding ring on my finger?yes, im married and its been 3 years now. i know, you know it but still many pipol are asking me,
why are u still using your maiden name? (cuaresma), dont you like to use your husband's surname? like kai has told me:
kai: ayaw mo b ipangalandakan ang apelyido ng asawa mo?kung pwede ko lng gmitin surname ng ex ko, gnawa ko na..MY SIDE:
of course i would love to use my husband's surname, y not? its cute and
posh. :) in fact, im using them in my accounts like in emails, sites like friendster, multiply and here in blogspot. deeply in my heart and mind, i know that i'm now an OCAMPO and i will be forever..hahaha.
but i also have reasons why im not using it. here are those:
- many people know me for being a cuaresma, especially my relatives on my dad's side, i think some of them does'nt even know that im married. cheeky!
- main reason is that all my documents and everything is still cuaresma. like my passport, drivers licence, bills etc. now, i know you want to ask me, so why not change it? do you think its easy? i've asked about it already and how to do it, but the problem is, i need to go to the philippines and sort this out. i need to get this affidavit, notary and this ribbon from authentication. an insider from that department told me that it will take me 1-2 years to finish this.. i cant stay in the philippines for 2 years, for goodness sake! and here in the uk, they need that to change all my documents to OCAMPO. question: if you really want to change it, you'll do it, right? again, its not that simple. im a resident now here in the uk, my son's born here and my work's here as well. i cant exceed my stay/vacation in the philippines for 6 months or more, my son cant be out of this country more for more than 3 months..or else! my work?well, i can sacrifice my work but not my son. there's a reason behind why he cant stay out of this country for more than 3 months..so, thats it..that's the reasons why i cant use OCAMPO here in the UK. but for those pipol who knows me, they know im an OCAMPO now, and then again, in my heart and in my mind i know im an OCAMPO and nobody can take that away from me.. ang sumubok, TIGOK! XD.
no more questions please regarding this topic.
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